For those that are or think they will be going through a long term relationship break up, it can be very difficult because of the investment in emotions and time between the two of you. Sometimes trying to maintain that bond that holds you together can become fragile and it may take extra work to hold it together. All relationships are not perfect and some just do not workout.
If you find yourself in one of these long term relationship break ups, take heart that you do have a good chance to get back together with your ex if you play it right. Try to minimize how much communicating you do. It would be best not to talk for a while right after the break up, someone may say something in anger they do not mean and make things worse.
You must show signs of strength and that you can move on with your life. If you take the position of chasing after your ex, begging them to come back or worse thinking you will get revenge, you can write off any hope of re-uniting with them. Now would be a good time to get out and enjoy yourself for a while, this will help you get over the break up faster.
If at some point in the future the two of you start talking again, remember what you were like when you guys first met. That is the person your ex was first attracted to, try to be that person and you might be able to re-ignite that old romance again.
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